Uncommon Legend

In a world full of – well, everything, I find it hard to find moments to enjoy what I am doing. I guess I am saying that I am often “doing” something because it needs to be done. I find it hard to do something because I simply enjoy it. A few weeks ago, I found myself reading books for fun! For the first time in literally ten years, I read fictional books. I wanted to do something fun for once with no purpose of “getting better.” I say that because I am a person of habits and tend to do things based on my schedule, personal development, or obligation – I know not a good way to live, Albert. But cut me some slack. 

In mid-August, I picked up a series of books titled Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard, and I was pleased with it! I found myself locked in reading for hours on end, with no stress. Because I am a Christian, in seminary, and director of a campus ministry, my usual reading list requires much focus on how to grow myself and others. However, while reading this series geared towards tweens/young adults, I enjoyed reading. 

If you know me, then you know that I am a huge nerd, and I love all things DC, Marvel, Anime, and Mythological. But I found myself staying away from a lot of that sort of reading in the past few years because I deemed it “not important,” thankful I was mistaken. For three straight weeks, I found myself lost in the books and just enjoying doing something for fun while also attending to my regular routine – Goal setting, chores, reading scripture, working out, dates with Kathryn, etc. These things now felt more enjoyable, like I already enjoyed them, but now they felt more fun. I found myself living in the moment with each item. 

I am a person who thrives off being consistent rather than being motivated or inspired. However, that does mean I get to a point where I do things that I sometimes don’t enjoy. But I know there is more to life than just being good at being consistent or even robotic. Life should be enjoyable, not miserable. The funny thing is that I didn’t do that from content in a book as I often do, but rather, just being present with that series helped me realize that I should be present with everything I do, from my relationship with my wife, my studies, my students, and everything far and in between. 

Since I am a man of God, I want to ensure that everything I do pleases him. That said, enjoying the life he has graciously given me is on that list! I write this blog not to inform you but to remind you that it’s okay to have fun. It’s encouraged! Life’s too short not to enjoy what you’re doing. Remember, I’m the saying person grinds because things need to get done, but I also know I need to be present with what I am doing. So choose something that allows you to live today and every day on purpose instead of on autopilot.